Ruth Kidane has become one of the most familiar faces in Barnet Hospital in North London
The 21-year-old, who has a muscular weakening disorder, is very happy here and loves staff.
& # 39; They're great, & # 39; He said in a bare voice heard when we met this week.
Ruth has limited to a wheelchair and sometimes has difficulty breathing, eating, swallowing and even talking, with whom she faces calm resilience.
It is impossible not to warm up to Ruth, or fail to be removed by the dedication of her mother, Mimi Tebeje, 50, who is a constant presence on her side.
But behind the incredible hardship of Ruth's existence is another date.
One who has a massive public opinion, causes patient groups, and has placed Ruth, her mother and Barnet Hospital at the center of arguments.
This is the reason: for the past 15 months, Ruth and Mimi, who are originally from Ethiopia, have been living in hospital.
& # 39; Live & # 39; It seems like something weird to use here, but it's actually the right one.
Ruth, you see, is not a patient. Not really. A patient is someone who needs nursing or medical treatment.
Ruth is disabled but she is not sick. Twice a week, for example, he attends a college, where he is studying basic English and math, and she enjoys a day with a mother who is sleeping at each other on a folded bed in an en-suite room on a general ward that should be used to treat what is really sick.
How does this lucky situation come? The simple answer is that Ruth was first received to Barnet Hospital with respiratory problems after arriving in London last July and, within weeks, was declared fit to release.
In normal circumstances, she would have been, of course. But Ruth and Mimi, who lived in Grimsby before coming to London, said they were homeless and had no room to go.
Hospitals can get possession orders to turn patients out of bed, but the Royal Free London NHS Trust, who runs Barnet, has chosen not to issue legal proceedings.
So, more than a year ago, Ruth and Mimi are still hostels & # 39; at Barnet Hospital at the expense of taxpayers – and will probably be in the near future.
Their application for social housing in the borough has been rejected and they refuse to return to Lincolnshire, where the council has offered them a new home.
Understandably, the case has caused public disruption at a time when the NHS in question is extended to the limit.
The average daily hospital bed cost, according to the Department of Health, is around £ 400 – so £ 12,000 per month.
It means that Ruth's cost, around & year, is around £ 180,000.
More seriously, the disinfection must lead to the refusal of patients in a hospital bed.
Back in Grimsby, where the family was housed after having a refuge from Ethiopia 16 years ago, some of those who know that Mimi thinks it's simple & # 39; play & system & # 39; to stay in London
Her oldest daughter, who left Grimsby for the capital several years ago, has been based in London and a new baby has had a baby.
No, Mimi, Mimi insists when the allegations of playing the system are given to her. TV stations and newspapers have been trying unsuccessfully to interview Mimi since the scandal came to appear earlier this week, but he chose to talk to the Post about the events who has taken her and Ruth into the attention.
I can understand why people are distressed, & # 39; he recognizes. And there's a ridiculous situation, I know.
Many sick people are waiting for beds. I do not feel I had any choice. We have no room to go and Ruth would be on the street if we had to leave. & # 39;
He admits his former home in Grimsby – a specially adapted bungalow on a new estate where there is a four year waiting list for property – very nice & # 39; and she did not have any complaints & # 39; for the accommodation itself.
They leave, he says, just because they suffer racist abuse and harassment in the town.
However, the police have notified the authorities in Barnet that there is no current risk & # 39; Ruth and Mimi at Grimsby.
This information has been buried in correspondence for their assumption that Mimi gives me during our meeting.
Yet, she's definitely never going to put a foot in Grimsby again.
There's no point, & # 39; he says, because we will be in the same position as before. & # 39;
Regardless of the truth, it can not be right that a room in a front-line NHS hospital has come slightly more than B & B. Ruth and Mimi receive three meals a day, but no medical treatment. A caretaker helps Mimi get Ruth in and out of bed.
Ruth's sister regularly visits and makes them wash. Mail is sent to a room. Most of their properties are stored in Grimsby.
They have a few changes in clothes, and Ruth also has books for coursework.
Desirable, she recently registered at Barnet and Southgate College nearby and Mimi will take her by bus to and off campus on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
Their different journeys are recorded on social media.
My mother and mother went to Ruth, Instagram revealed. We tried to find a summer costume for Mum. He said let's go to H & M so we're going around. I found out more I like. & # 39;
But Ruth, who hopes one day to work in fashion, bought the word itself during an interview lasting for several hours at a coffee shop near Barnet Hospital this week.
You would have to be encouraging, indeed, to not sympathize with this young girl, born with legacy spastic paraspares, and the burden that her condition has placed on her mom.
It is also true that, after coming to Britain in 2003 and finally putting a shelter in 2008 – because Mimi said her family was no longer safe in Ethiopia – some countries could do more to help – something Mimi does not always seem to be fully appreciated
She can not understand why Barnet has not automatically suited accommodation, although they do not have a connection; with the borough. (Local connection is one of the setup requirements in social housing.)
Ruth was six and 11 sisters when they arrived on these banks first after the death of Mimi's husband.
She had worked as a chef in a hotel in Addis Ababa, but he worked to become Ruth's full time carer when they were housed in Grimsby.
Over the years, Mimi and her family lived in the council's property succession and received benefits of around £ 1,400 per month, along with a wheelchair lift fan.
Its latest properties, on the development of mixed social and private housing, which they had been moving at the beginning of last year, had a combined front room and kitchen with new beech units, sofa with disabled boats, double glazing, backyard & 39; surrounded by a high wooden fence and a front lawn and a parking bay.
Mimi showed her pictures from her garden on Facebook, encouraging one friend to joke: She looks beautiful that she should come and make my Mimi lol x. & # 39;
Actually, Mimi now says, she was often and Ruth was afraid to go out because of her racist abuse.
He said they were called their names (& # 39; black this or that. N *****. Go back home and they were even litter in the street.
& Sometimes I used to stay awake at night only to hold Ruth's hand as she slept, & # 39; says Mimi. I started keeping the curtains closed during the day. & # 39;
Humberside Police confirmed that Mimi had made a small number of claims about anti-social behavior and alleged racial abuse & # 39; but he said no doubt was identified.
However, her friends, neighbors and disability support group did not have any disturbance.
& I'm a private person, & # 39; Mimi explained. And I did not know who to trust and I did not tell people in the carer group.
The event, who was convinced that she left Grimsby, had taken place during the late 8 hours of last year, when stone was thrown through a French door window at the back of their home.
She was a long time, allegedly, from a campaign of frightening by a gang of white teenage boys who used to walk stones and eggs in their bungalow.
Residents in the cul-de-sac say there is a problem with one group of youth, but they were not aware that Mimi and Ruth were targeted, or that their behavior was racist.
The following day, it took serious steps; Mimi gave clothes in a suitcase and fled with Ruth on train to King Cross.
Those who came to know Mimi say she had not made any secret that she wanted to move to London because her eldest daughter, who was living there, had just got a baby. Mimi denies that this is the reason for their dramatic departure.
They went to London, he said, because he was a multi-cultural city & # 39; where Ruth would be safe.
After they arrived at King Cross, they were in a black cabin and they were asked to be taken to the nearest hospital.
Mimi explains that Ruth has been traumatized by what happened in Grimsby.
She could not speak, he said, and had difficulty in breathing.
It was taken to Barnet Hospital and we went straight to A & E, & # 39; says Mimi. Ruth was astonished and I told them she can not answer, she can not talk about anything. & # 39;
Ruth was accepted to the Medical Short Stay Unit (MSSU) – how ironic his name appears today – and Mimi was sleeping next to a chairman. After a month, Ruth was ready to be released from the unit. The Trust rejected this week to answer the Post questions about Ruth on the basis of patient confidentiality.
Initially, Mimi said, the staff tried to persuade her to put Ruth in care but her daughter started to smile about the possibility of being separated from her mother and kissed: Mom, I do not want to go anywhere without chi. & # 39;
A final decision was made to transfer Ruth to a general ward on the upper floor. She was given to a social worker and lawyer – a movement almost guaranteed, in most circumstances, to extend any problem.
Ruth was about to become a most controversial example possibly on a record of what's called bedblocking & # 39; – a term usually used to describe delays in discharging elderly patients from hospital when there are difficulties in organizing social care.
Research from a number of leading universities, including Oxford, found that up to 8,000 people die each year due to blocking beds on NHS & Wards. The shortage of beds for patients requiring urgent surgery often results in canceled operations.
Hospitals received 413 possession orders to eradicate patients from beds in 2016.
Rarely there could be a more emotional case than Ruth Kidane. He stayed on the general ward, in a six bed bay, for the next 11 months before moving to a side room where she and her mother now.
How could they still be there?
Early, they got the keys to a temporary apartment in Barnet, but the front door was too narrow for Ruth's wheelchair and was then considered unsuitable for Ruth's disability needs.
Barnet eventually decided that Mimi could not be housed in the area anyway because she had made herself homeless in Grimsby.
He can not, in the first instance, return to Grimsby even if she wanted. Mimi's benefits were cut when he moved out of town but continued to be a registered tenant of his council in the first six months.
This meant that she had accumulated debts for unpaid rent, making it disqualified for other council accommodation.
The North East Council of Lincolnshire, the authority that covers Grimsby, has now received a legal duty to provide accommodation. Ruth and her mother and have a suitable property available, but at the time of writing Ruth and Mimi have not responded to their messages.
But we know they will not go back to Grimsby in any case.
Mimi, for her part, says she had passed all the correspondence to her lawyer, who refused to help shed any light on cases. There is a continuing issue so I will not make any comments about the case, & # 39; tell us
It would only be the supreme optimistic that it would think it was the best to be a continuous issue & # 39; any time soon.
Additional reports: Stephanie Condron